5 wrong reasons to stay in a relationship
Life is about choices and decisions we make
The choices we make have a major impact on the life we liveLife is about choices. Some we regret, some we’re proud of. Some will haunt us forever. The message: we are what we chose to be.”
sometimes you may not even realize that you are staying in a relationship for the wrong reasons.
And if you're not in a relationship for the pure reasons of love and happiness, you might quickly find that you either get bored and exhausted of it, or the relationship just ends anyway.
That’s why it’s very important for you to always reflect on the state of your relationship.
You should always be willing to look inside your heart and come to terms with the truth. You have to be able to know what your motivations are in this relationship.
You need to know what your expectations you want your partner to fulfill.
You have to be sure that your relationship is built on a strong and solid foundation.
Otherwise, it is better for you not to risk continuing in such a foggy relationship, because if you continue to procrastinate and go against your happiness by ignoring and stubbornness, you will bring yourself more pain
To put things simply, when you find yourself in a relationship where you don't find the right place to feel safe and settled, you will eventually get bored, tired, and exhausted from that relationship.
It is only a matter of time. If you insist on staying in a relationship for all reasons that do not involve true love, mutual respect, understanding and intimacy, then you insist on this wrong decision and thus you will pay an expensive bill for this decision from your happiness and your life.
So what exactly are the wrong reasons why a person stays in the wrong relationship? Let's try to address the most important reasons:
1. Financial security and stability:
Never let money rule your relationships and never be a slave of the money and let it control your destiny and your decisions.
You should find a stable and secure source of money
Search for a job or try to invest a small amount of money in a small
project, or strive to learn a skill or craft that suits your passion to be a
source of income
But do not treat your partner like a money machine, do not make him control
your fate, or blackmail you psychologically and emotionally for money.
2. Fear of loss and loneliness:
Your fear of being alone should not be what drives you to be in a relationship with someone, regardless of their intentions or behavior towards you.This makes you an ideal victim of manipulators
You should be in a relationship only with someone because you love this person, but don't let your happiness and security being dependent on their existence in your life. Your desire to be together should not be driven by your fear of loss and loneliness.
3- Regret for the past
Do not make bemoaning about the past life and the years you spent trying to save the relationship or clinging to it so that it does not fail, the only motivation for you to stay in a miserable Relationshipstherefore you decide desperately to continue with such This toxic relationship has no feelings or hope for tomorrow
4 - People talk:
It is important that we listen to the advice of the people around us and take their opinions into account, but the words of the people around us, such as relatives and friends, should not be what govern our fateful decisions, as every human being has his own motives and experiences in life that do not necessarily represent us or suit our circumstances.5- Second Chance Syndrome
When your personal boundaries are weak and unable to resolve matters or make the appropriate decision, and when your survival is motivated by need and fear of loss, this makes your partner persist in underestimating you and disregarding your feelings through more lies and mistakes or repeated betrayal to you
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