8 Silent Relationship killers
Many relationships may end not because of explosive disagreements or raging
conflicts, but because of small details and problems accumulated over the
years without paying attention to them or thinking that they will be a cause
for the destruction of the relationship in the future.
There is no denying the fact that the lasting health of a relationship is
never a certain thing - no matter how pure your intentions are. Some good
feelings start to rise and end to break down and destroy over
time.
Usually these hopes are destroyed by mistakes that could have been avoided
with more vigilance and better effort. It's no secret that a lot of people
broke up just because they couldn't get things to work as they should, and
the worst part about it is that a lot of the silent killers of relationships
look like fire under the ashes, you'll never notice that they hurt your love
life until it's too late.
So you have to make sure that you put the right adequate effort to protect
your relationship, day in and day out, every day. So that you don't end up
losing a beautiful, important relationship in your life just because of your
recklessness and negligence
So here are 8 of the most dangerous silent relationship
killers.
1. Excessive jealousy:
Jealousy is one of the most well-known silent relationship killers. It's
good to act with a little jealousy that makes your partner feel wanted. But
being overly jealous about anything is a bad thing, and it ruins your
romantic relationship. Especially when this jealousy expresses a lack of
confidence in yourself or the other party, and therefore all your actions
become governed by suspicion and stalking in a stifling manner that kills
love and affection and makes the relationship a round of stalking and
suspicion
2. Absence of breathing space and privacy:
Just because you two are in a relationship doesn't mean that you two
have to spend all of your time together. It is always necessary to establish
the principle of respect for privacy between the two life partners, in order
to regain the sparkle of passion in life, and to preserve personal
relationships, aspirations and private hobbies without bullying or intruding
from one of the parties is what It helps to increase the level of
desire
relationships work best when partners work collaboratively to manage their
boundaries around privacy.
They thrive when partners feel invested in each other feeling safe,
supported, and accepted – even when they need different amounts of intimacy
and privacy.
3. Negative silence:
Silence is a lethal weapon to destroy any relationship, but it may differ
in form and effect according to intentions and style,
There is silence stemming from frustration and loss of desire to speak as a
result of despair and neglect
There is punitive silence that is used in bad faith for the purpose of
manipulation and control
However, you should never use the silent treatment as a tool to get
what you want. You need to understand that you can get what you want from
your partner through positive, effective communication. You will not solve
the problem just by remaining silent.
4. Stop taking care of yourself:
Sometimes you may find yourself immersed in a relationship that makes you
like someone who melts into the life of those around him, like sugar in tea,
so you lose the right direction towards your dreams, passions and
relationships, and even make yourself the bottom of your list of interests,
which will reflect negatively on others' dealings with you.
Always take care of yourself even when you are in a relationship with
someone. Show your partner that you are still willing to make the effort to
be the best for them
5. Disconnection of communication:
The absence of a common language of communication between the two life
partners and thus the scarcity of times during which we can express
ourselves clearly and understand the thoughts and feelings of
your partner, It lends itself to misunderstanding and mounting resentment
and conflict Especially when all attempts to communicate between us become
fits of criticism, blame, comparison and accusations
6. The absence of intimacy:
There are people who are shy to discuss their sexual needs with a partner.
Feeling sexual dissatisfaction in a relationship is common, but many couples
do not address this problem due to insecurity, fear, or embarrassment. But
unfulfilled desires may lead to low self-esteem, infidelity, and resentment.
The only solution to this problem is to talk about these desires - let your
partner know what you want and what your sexual needs are
7. Taking your partner for granted
Take it for granted that you own the keys to your relationship with the
other person when you are with him or her for a long time. Do not bother
with the psychological, emotional, or age changes that happen to him, and
deal with whatever concerns him as a matter for granted. You are thus making
a time bomb that may explode in your face at any time, especially when you
find in front of you another person you do not know as you thought
8. When “I” becomes greater than “we”:
Selfishness is an evil that, if left unchecked, has the power to destroy
even the strongest relationships.
The only way to overcome this habit of thinking only of your best interest
is to prioritize what is best for the relationship. Dealing with the
relationship according to the win-win principle. Everyone should be happy,
win and feel contented with justice without selfishness, abuse, exploitation
and manipulation.
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