Sings of toxic people and how to deal with them
So what are the signs that someone in your life could be toxic?
When your inner child has been conditioned to feel inferior, defective and just not enough, it is nearly impossible to value how you FEEL when you spend time with another person.
In fact, if you are like most people who felt invisible growing up, you might deny you have any feelings at all about anything and find yourself scurrying around seeking approval while fearing negative outcomes.
If you tend to focus on others, how they feel, what they think what they need, and what they say, you might not be attuned with what is going on inside of you. Within each of us is a divine guidance system that sends us signals that allow us to know it is time to pay more attention to what is happening outside of us by the way we feel on the inside.
Toxic people live in fear of you thinking you're good and prefer that you keep seeking their approval and live in fear of never getting it.
How to deal with toxic person:
Avoid playing into their reality
You might feel
tempted to nod and smile in order to prevent an angry outburst. This might
feel like the safest option, but it can also encourage them to see you as a
supporter.
Set Stricter Boundaries
If you must have a toxic person in your life, try to set stricter boundaries. For example, if someone is abusing substances and it causes them to harm you or others, let them know you won’t see them unless they’re sober. Make it clear you won’t tolerate their overly dramatic behavior or spreading rumors about people. Limit the time you spend with them until they can change.Cut Them Out of Your Life
If the above strategies don’t work and cause even more pain, abuse, or dishonesty, it’s time to let the toxic person go. Sometimes there’s nothing to do but stand up for yourself and move on.Sources:
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