5 Tips To Beat Narcissists At Their Own Game

5 Tips To Beat Narcissists At Their Own Game

Narcissists are experts at spoiling other people's lives, and they do so without holding their breath. They use others as tools to get what they want. They will act because they have the person's best interests in mind to make them addicted to their narcissistic personality. The narcissist will not begin to show his true face until the relationship has deepened. It is then up to the victim to decide whether to accept this abuse or to expel the narcissist from her life.

Trying to beat narcissists at their own game will be very difficult if you do not completely cure yourself of their toxic manipulation, because you can make it worse. However, sometimes it is comforting to watch someone taste their own medicine.

There are many ways to use the traits/behaviors of a narcissist to achieve your own goals if you are creative and don't mind playing with them again. But how do you beat the narcissist at their own game?

Here're 5 Tips To Beat Narcissists At Their Own Game

1. Play on their ego 

Make him want to play the role of a loving husband, father, etc. by giving compliments (without any sarcasm in your voice).

2. Play for their sense of entitlement 

Make them feel "special" - don't ask or ask if you want a better school for your kids or a new set of luggage. Instead, "I happened to mention 'stuff like, 'Wow.' It seems like smarter people send their kids to such-and-such school" or 'Gee, better-looking travelers all have [brand name]' bags.”

3- Don't call them narcissists In their faces

It is advised not to call this person a narcissist in the face. This is because they will redouble their efforts to manipulate you into their toxic abuse. Maybe you know how it goes. They turn the tables on you, call you out for your past transgressions, or blame you for what they are, they might just go ahead and threaten you, all of them!

4 - Ignore them 

If you want to beat narcissists at their own game, ignore them! Narcissists like to ignore their victims. They manipulate you so that their love and proof is like a casino to you. You are addicted to those few moments of attention you get from them. They make you addicted to them like a drug. The sad truth of narcissistic relationships is that narcissists target people who are dying for the love, attention, and validation of someone, anyone! They take advantage of this and he reminds you now and then that no one wants you, that they pity you. This further solidifies their brainwashing and makes you fall in love with them, to the point where you can't live without them.

5 - Do not respond to their strikes 

Narcissists love to punch their victims. Telling them that no one likes them, or that they are liars and mistreat the narcissist. Mostly, these will be lies. The thing about victims of narcissistic abuse is that they will be shocked by these lies and will therefore sway and pant, trying to defend themselves against their blatant lies. What's with these narcissists? They are telling obvious lies, waiting for the poor victims to take the bait and start defending themselves. Narcissists love to look at us and fight to save our reputation. I'm telling you - these people have problems. Why would anyone say something wrong about you? Well, here's the thing: they loved it.

Sources:

thenarcissisticlife.com/how-to-beat-a-narcissist

cognitiveheights.com/beat-narcissists-at-their-own-game