Why Most Narcissists Hate Christmas

Christmas is a time for narcissists to suffer dreadful unease and anxiety and, act out. As They have difficulty in isolating, controlling and regulating people enough to get adequate narcissistic supply – the attention they need to feel 'alive'

So they will try to project their pain onto others, hoping to spoil their Christmas, or create actions that bring the focus back on to them,”

Narcissists hate Christmas because their sole focus is themselves and Christmas is a time for giving and others. Christmas is for children and supposed to be a happy time, thinking of those with less than yourself. Narcissists only ever think of self! So they will not like not to be the focus of attention. They like to be in the center. They do not care about ANYONE! They will hate Christmas.

Think about it this way…to a narcissist, they are the center of the universe. Everything is about them, how they feel, what they want. On holidays, the focus is on other people or events. It completely takes the focus off of them. They feel insignificant. Also the narc wants to be able to give the biggest and most expensive gifts. If they can’t do that, they feel like a loser.

Narcissists have a tendency to practice seasonal devalue and discard during the holidays, focusing these abuse tactics on their nearest targets and closest partners. 

Why do they do this? 

Because they have no empathy and cannot handle intimate relationships and are compelled to do what it takes to destroy them.For narcissist they want it over before it even begins. They dislike others being happy, and certainly they must be the center of attention.

To counteract diminishing sources of narcissistic presentation, narcissists tend to create a lot of drama and chaos among those close to them to redirect attention to themselves.
They seem to "act" more during the last couple of months of the year, making havoc, triangulating family members, dumping partners, and basically behaving like needy kids. Narcissists are unable to feel the joy associated with the season. While the holidays are a magical time of year that represents bonding, giving, love, and gratitude to many, this is not the case for narcissists.

They will start any argument, create wild and false accusations, start arguments without reason and might go so far as to invite that special friend over to witness him making you angry, or he may refuse to participate, perhaps walk out, anything is fair game. Taking pictures was always a joyous time to capture upon film, but not with a narcissist. 

They will not welcome other family members into the home and may ignore the family all together, or provide them with a cold shoulder. The image is only used to try to convince others that they are actively participating in their children's lives even while they are the absent and uninvolved parent. They'll show pictures of their ex as if they've been involved in their lives as well, but it's all part of the facade to capture the image of a loving and family-oriented person.

Final word:

Don't let the narcissist take any more happiness from you than they already have. You don't want to look back and think about the devastating vacations that only happen once. Removing a narcissist from your life can be the best gift you could ever give or receive

You deserve the best life and holiday times with many more to come.And your life will fill with enjoying celebrations with whole, beautiful and healthy people who care about each other and connect genuinely