5 Reasons Why Narcissists Are Obsessed With Savior Empaths

 5 Reasons Why Narcissists Are Obsessed With Savior Empaths 

Savior Empaths and narcissists are often drawn to each other.This is because empaths have a lot of compassion and they feel a sense of responsibility to Fix other people’s problems while narcissists thrive on someone worshipping them. But this isn't a good match, because empaths tend to forgive everything the narcissist does.

The Savior empath are always the givers. They have an enormous need to save others from their problems. And they do it without wanting anything in return. They fell like the weight of the world rest on your shoulders! You feel responsibility to help other people’s and / or the world’s problems. Savior Empaths often have a hard time putting themselves first, as there are always other problems and issues to focus on. But a combination of neglecting themselves and feeling responsible for other people is an imbalance that can have exhausting consequences.This is why narcissists are always attracted to them because their conditional bond is always fulfilled by this type of empath.

Unfortunately empaths are attracted to narcissists, because at first this is about a false self. Narcissists present a false self, where they can seem charming and intelligent, and even giving, until you don't do things their way, and then they get cold, withholding and punishing."

The job of the Saviour Empath is to heal and save, ensuring that good prevails. They are the typical believe that there is goodness in every human being. The Saviour Empath does not believe that we are innately 'evil' or 'bad' in any way. They like to believe that we all have good hidden inside of us, waiting to be discovered, unlocked, and set free. This thought, along with the desire to address this apparent goodness, is a powerful binder that allows us to maintain control over the Saviour Empath. There are people who play with this concept, and this is addressed below.

Here're 5 Reason Why Savior Empaths Attracted To Narcissists

1. Savior Empaths have a strong desire to help others

Savior Empaths are highly sensitive people that feel who feel someone else's pain as if it were their own. Because they can relate on a deeper level, they instinctively want to help others.

In general , empaths are also more likely to put their needs aside and can sometimes end up severely neglected. They will put every ounce of their being into a relationship and do whatever is needed to help their loved ones.When savior empaths and narcissists meet, the empath will sense that something is off, so they are immediately attracted to them.

2.Savior Empaths are easily love-bombed.

Empaths are prone to manipulative tactics such as love bombing. Their hearts rule, not their heads. So, unlike someone more wiser or not easily taken in, empaths fall in love with cheesy lines and relaxed charm. They feel special, wanted and loved like never before.

When narcissistic love bombards empath, they feel a hit of dopamine, much like a drug. Then the narcissist withdraws that love, and the empath wants more. Now, they are addicted to this love and go out of their way to please the narcissist who will integrate compliments and kindness into their behaviour, making their victim believe that if they behave in the correct manner, they will get the loving person back who they once knew.

3. Savior Empaths fall in love quickly

Like Other Empaths, Savior people are emotional beings who can tune into other people’s feelings. This means they are more likely to pick up on subtle signals that someone likes them. Since emotions are front and centre for empaths, they tend to fall in love quickly and deeply.

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4. Savior empath crave to preserve harmony. 

 narcissist likes to be pleased and pandered to. They know how empath craves harmony and will do what they can to restore their partner’s sense of well-being, so they can both enjoy their time together.

Empaths tend to soak up the feelings of those around them. So, in pleasing others and restoring harmony, they’re also making themselves feel better. If their partner is happy, they’re happy. And if their partner seems troubled by something, they’ll do what they can to fix it or make up for it

5- Savior Empaths are more likely to blame themselves for the failure of relationship

Because empaths understand the frailties of human nature, they are more likely to forgive than non-empaths. They are also more likely to blame themselves when things go wrong in a relationship. Empaths believe it is their responsibility to stay and help fix the problem. Their compassionate side comes out. Unfortunately, this is when narcissists up their game.

Savior empaths will be very long suffering if a narcissist says 'I really want to change, I know I'm not perfect.' They have these moments where they sort of admit fault, but they never actually follow through or believe it."

Final Thoughts

It's important to remember as a Savior Empath that everyone is sovereign and responsible for their own life path. Yes, we can help one other, but it must come from a position of authenticity and empowerment, not a place of pity, fear, guilt or doubt in another's abilities or life path.When you meet someone or are in a relationship with them, you must be mindful not to do their work or care more about their growth than they do.

Setting limits in any relationship is healthy. Boundaries can feel harsh for empaths, but if they understand the power of saying "no," they can protect themselves from others who want to take advantage of them.