11 Things Narcissists Would Never Do

11 Things Narcissists Would Never Do

Narcissists are extremely egotistic, with an exaggerated, grandiose sense of self-importance, have fantasies of unlimited success and brilliance, expect special treatment, like to exploit others, lacking empathy and inability to identify needs of others, are filled with envy, expect people to envy them and are extremely arrogant.

Understanding the behaviors that narcissists are unlikely to engage in can help us identify and protect ourselves from these individuals. No matter how good of an actor he is, a narcissist will never do something that doesn’t concern him, something that doesn’t benefit him. So, while it’s never helpful to overgeneralize, here are 11 things someone with NPD or narcissistic traits is unlikely to do regularly.

1. Prioritize Others' Needs

Narcissists are primarily concerned with their own desires and aspirations. They find it difficult to prioritize the needs and well-being of others. Acting selflessly or putting others first is a concept that rarely crosses their mind.

2. Thy Never Show Empathy

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. Narcissists lack this essential quality. They are focused solely on their own needs and desires, making it unlikely for them to show genuine compassion or understanding towards others.

3. Apologize Sincerely

A genuine apology requires self-reflection and remorse. However, narcissists struggle with introspection and rarely see the need to apologize. If they do apologize, it is often insincere and aimed at manipulating a situation rather than genuinely expressing remorse.

4. Accept Criticism

Narcissists have a fragile self-esteem and cannot handle criticism well. They often react defensively or become enraged when faced with feedback that challenges their self-perceived perfection. Accepting criticism and using it to grow and improve is simply not within their nature.

5. Take Responsibility for Their Actions

Narcissists have difficulty accepting responsibility for their own mistakes or shortcomings. They often shift blame onto others or come up with elaborate justifications for their behavior. Accepting fault and taking responsibility for their actions is something narcissists simply cannot do.

6. Maintain Healthy Relationships

Building and maintaining healthy relationships requires open communication, empathy, and compromise. These are qualities that narcissists lack. They often struggle with maintaining long-term, meaningful connections as their behavior tends to be self-centered and manipulative.

7. Show Gratitude or Acknowledge Others' Contributions

Narcissists crave admiration and attention. They want to be perceived as exceptional and superior in all aspects of life. Therefore, they rarely give credit to others or acknowledge their contributions, as it may undermine their own perceived greatness.

8. Respect Boundaries

Respecting personal boundaries is crucial for healthy interactions and relationships. However, narcissists have a sense of entitlement that often leads them to disregard the boundaries of others. They may invade personal space, ignore requests for privacy, or manipulate situations to suit their own needs.

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9. Communicate Effectively

Open and honest communication is vital in any relationship. However, narcissists are skilled manipulators who often use communication as a tool to control and dominate others. Their conversations are typically one-sided, where they monopolize the discussion and fail to listen to alternative perspectives.

10. Change Their Behavior

Narcissists are unlikely to change their behavior. Their sense of self-importance and lack of self-awareness make it difficult for them to acknowledge the need for personal growth or change. They are resistant to therapy or any form of intervention that challenges their belief in their own perfection.

11. Losing control

Narcissists are control-freaks and losing control makes them extremely upset or angry. They need to have control of people and their surroundings. a lack of control triggers narcissistic injuries and causes narcissistic rage because it prevents the narcissist from using projection and forces the narcissist to address their painful thoughts, feelings, and emotions on their own.

Conclusion

Understanding the behaviors that narcissists are incapable of engaging in can help us identify and protect ourselves from these individuals. By recognizing their inability to take responsibility, show empathy, or change their behavior, we can establish healthier boundaries and avoid becoming enmeshed in their manipulative tactics. Keep in mind that it's crucial to put our own self-confidence, self-worth & wellbeing first and surround ourselves with others who possess the qualities of empathy, respect, and integrity in order to create the balance required to protect our identities, feelings and energies from abuse, exploitation and manipulation.