I offer you the following marriage tips which are hardly inclusive of everything one needed to know:
Have fun, have sex,be compassionate and patient.
You are both working towards a somewhat clean house
No passive aggressive BS
No manipulative mumbo jumbo. Work as a team
Be a team about money,kids,career,life etc
No shutting down emotionally
No game playing, ( unless it is of the sexy
bedroom variety. )
AND one of the best gems there is, NO absolutely
NO shit talking about your in laws. Granted, they probably do suck and honestly
you both deep down know how annoying your own parents are. No matter how true
the shit talking is lol
Don't get lazy on the snuggles, and kisses and
random touches here and there
Laugh and don't take yourselves too seriously
Let go of pride.
Have fun, have sex,be compassionate and patient.
Don't keep score.Maybe you did the dishes more
this week, or maybe they did more laundry that week. Let it go.
You are both working towards a somewhat clean
house.
Be honest and open about everything.
No passive aggressive BS.
No manipulative mumbo jumbo.
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
Work as a team.
Be a team about money,kids,career,life etc.
No shutting down emotionally.
No game playing, ( unless it is of the sexy
bedroom variety. )
AND one of the best gems there is, NO absolutely
NO shit talking about your in laws. Granted, they probably do suck and honestly
you both deep down know how annoying your own parents are. SO don't even go
there because you will both get defensive and it is divisive. No matter how
true the shit talking is lol. It isn't worth it.
AND of course say I love you, BUT more
importantly, actions speak louder than words.
Don't get lazy on the snuggles, and kisses and
random touches here and there.
Compromise about everything.
And again, when all else fails, and you are
exhausted and pissed off and shit is gettin' real...
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