6 Things Men Look For In A Romantic Relationship
Men are different from women, and to understand them you have to learn to see
things through their eyes. Many women believe that the most important way to
keep a man in a relationship is his stomach, and there is another school that
says "Give the man what he wants," as this guarantees women the first place in
a man's life. Men are not as complicated as many women think, women just need
to understand them and see things through their eyes sometimes.
The problem that women treat men according to what they like instead of
knowing what men like. Are you trying to get him to commit to his relationship
with you or do you want to know what his needs are, do you want him to get
more serious with you?
Here are 6 Things Men Look For In A Romantic Relationship
1- Respect
This is an area of very high importance in the man's world. It involves
appreciating your man with great respect. When you really love a guy, does it
show in the way you treat him with respect or contempt? Men clearly see and
know when they are deeply in love because when a woman loves, she shows a deep
respect for her man when he is indoors or outdoors.
Men perceive respect in many ways:
First, he wants to be honored and revered. He wants to be treated privately.
He wants to be fully appreciated - his lead role in the relationship, his
emotions even his desires.
You don't respect him when you look at him with contempt, compare him with
others, skip your misunderstanding and always bring up third parties or talk
to him. One of the amazing things about respecting your man is that it makes
him happy and helps him act. It helps his self-esteem. He feels appreciated
but if it is not respected, he feels vulnerable.
He wants you to give in to him sometimes even when you don't agree with what
he's saying. Some women respect their men only when they need something, so
they use it as a tool of manipulation. Some get into the game "If I give him
what he loves, he will give me what I love." This is really wrong because a
guy will figure it out over time.
Most of the time it is best to focus on his good side as well because that
will frame how you see and talk to him. When you love and respect the person
you are interacting with, don't talk about their failures. You're talking
about their great qualities because you're happy for him ... and it's also a
sign of your happiness in yourself.
2- He wants to feel safe with you
Regardless of his strong and daring nature, there is a child in every man.
This part of him wants to be cuddled and held and wants to be vulnerable
with you without fear. He wants to connect with you emotionally. There are
things you know about your man that no one knows (if you are in a long-term
relationship). He wants a woman who can feel his needs and desires. His
haven, he wants to be able to open up to you. He wants to know that he can
be himself with you without pretending and you'll accept him that way.
3- He wants to be appreciated and accepted
There is a king in every man who wants to be appreciated. He may not be the
breadwinner in the relationship but he needs to hear from you every now and
then that he is doing his best. This will teach him that he is doing well and
push him to do a better job. It may sound strange, but another way to
appreciate your man is to stay loyal to him. It's easy to take your man for
granted, after all, you've been together for quite some time now but don't
forget that he needs a compliment. See the good in him and celebrate his
strengths, too. Don't let him go out of your relationship to get approval as
there are a thousand and one woman who could do better.
4- Needs encouragement
Remember that a man loves to work so much that when he feels he is
winning, it becomes a plus for him. He needs someone to motivate and encourage
him to always pursue him. Someone says, “My job is so stressful, and whenever
I want to give up. I feel relieved to know that she believes in me and in my
abilities. It's always encouraging to hear her saying to me, 'Come on Roy, you
can do it, keep faith, there is no better man for the job.'” Things do not
come easily with this, and life may be unfair, so men prefer to stick to a
motivation to keep going. He knows he can achieve a lot by her positive words
with him.
5- He wants to be able to communicate
This point cannot be overstated. Communication occurs at different levels.
Your man wants friendship and this involves communication on all levels from
the intellectual to the emotional and every area you can think of. He wants to
be able to communicate with you on all levels, he wants to be able to
communicate with you and share his work, dreams, goals, and even himself. And
when he does that, what do you do? Are you talking while he's expressing
himself or are you listening carefully? At this point, you can help by asking
questions and letting him speak without interruption. When he's not speaking,
give him some time because too much might be on his mind. He will definitely
come when he feels better.
6- Personal space
When your significant other says he needs some space, or you notice that he is
turning away to get himself a little alone, you fear the worst. You fear "the
space" means he's tired of your relationship and wants out. You fear that all
he wants is separation from you. But sometimes the only reason men need space
in a relationship and why men turn away in the first place is because they
need a chance to make room for themselves while they're still with someone
else. This is completely normal. Two people in a relationship need to hold
onto their individualities and private lives outside of the relationship.
Men need their time on their own just like women. They may feel suffocated
when their partner holds on to them. Men need their space to breathe; They
need time to pursue their hobbies, to hang out with their buddies, or to just
be alone and indulge in their thoughts. Respect your man's space if you want
him to stay happy and up to you.
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