10 Things Narcissists Will Never Do
Narcissists are the most difficult people to live with and deal with.They
are very selfish, they have an exaggerated sense of self-importance, they
have fantasies of unlimited success and intelligence, and they always expect
special treatment from others, they tend to exploit others, they lack
empathy, are filled with envy, and they expect people to To be envious of
them and they are too arrogant.
While it should be easy to spot these traits in a person, you need to remember
that narcissists are delusional people. They are manipulative and can easily
trick you into thinking that they are different. It can be helpful to know who
to turn away from, to help you get to know them: Here are some things
narcissists don't do.
10 things narcissists will never do
(1) They will not appreciate what you do in your life.
You may have a great career but they will never praise you. Instead, they will
point out the flaws that make you feel bad and demoralize you. You give
because you are expected and this is your duty to the narcissist
(2) They will not care about your problems.
If you think you need them to get support with your problems, just forget it.
Even if they are involved in the problem, they will avoid it or they may make
it difficult for you to blame you who are responsible. Show them one problem
and immediately they'll connect it to something vaguely similar to their
problem and back to square one: they'll start talking about themselves.
(3) They won't care how you feel.
Yes, it hurts but not for them. They lack every bit of sympathy. No
matter how close you are to them, a narcissist will not care. Did they offend
you? Well, that's fine for them. Did they ignore you? This is because they
wanted it. No matter how hard you struggle, it simply won't bother them.
(4) Say “I’m sorry.”
Admitting a mistake is uncomfortable for most people, but give and take
in relationships sometimes requires admitting a mistake. Healthy people
usually know when to owe an apology and are willing to offer it. Whether we
boycott or fail to deliver on a promise, say something painful, or lose our
temper beyond reasonable limits, we offer an apology for your showing of
respect and concern.
On the other hand, a narcissist never apologizes. Since he sees himself
above blame, he never feels wrong. His sense of superiority over others
reinforces his belief that other, lower-ranking beings are always
responsible for anything that goes awry, even if the narcissist is indeed
responsible.
Sometimes ,narcissists express a false apology, and are designed to place
the blame back on others. An example of biology is, “I'm sorry you are so
sensitive that you can't handle real life
(5) No Forgiveness.
For the same reason, narcissists do not apologize, they also do not forgive.
Hyper vigilance towards perceived or real attack (rarely), they see life as a
war zone in which they always fight for survival and view tolerance as a
symptom of vulnerability. If someone apologizes to them (often in a misguided
attempt to end a conflict), narcissists see it as evidence of their
superiority and may seize the opportunity to punish that person for anything
that may or may not have done a mistake. Genuine tolerance is not part of a
narcissist's emotional lexicon, because they basically cannot forgive
themselves.
(6) They do not listen.
They don't listen, they just wait for you to shut up so they can say what's on
their minds. They don't really care what you have to say, all that worries
them is your willingness to hear them speak constantly.
(7) They don't take responsibility .
They were immature. who cares? They shouldn't have acted a certain way ... but
who cares? Surely they are not! The narcissist will in no way be held
responsible for his actions. Instead, they will blame others for everything.
The narcissist is deeply averse to responsibility, as he systematically
divides his life to avoid it and becomes adept at denying it and projecting it
onto others, especially those closest to his sphere of authority: his partner
and his children.
(8) They won't make you feel good about yourself.
No matter how awesome you are as a human being, a narcissist will always try
to frustrate you. They prefer to make you feel guilty for your actions and
lower your self-esteem.
(9) He will never love you.
They will treat you kindly as long as your presence fits with their schedule.
They form an attachment to others but it just depends on how they improve
their life. There is no give and take, just take, take, take. It can seem like
a narcissist loves you. A narcissist can make it seem like love. A narcissist
can say words of love. A narcissist can think it is love. Unfortunately, when
you are dealing with a narcissist, you are involved but not in love. You can
be involved and mistake it for love.
(10) They won't do anything for you.
The narcissist does not understand the meaning of mutual giving. Everything
has to be about him. He won't do anything to make you feel good, which will
make you happy. A narcissist only does the things that make him or her happy.
You exist for the purpose of the narcissist's benefit. You are an "extension"
of the narcissist. He does not see you separated from himself, has desires,
needs and desires of your own.
You are a part of him, he is there to do his thing. You, as a separate and
privileged individual who cannot be appreciated, cannot be loved because if he
views you as being independent, he will also perceive you as a threat to him
in fulfilling his needs.
Living with a narcissist will leave you mentally and emotionally drained.
There will be times when you will feel angry, frustrated, or depressed. It is
better to live without them than with them.
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